Archiving Dayre Posts

28 Nov 2017

Less than one month before the wedding then you tell me you cannot make it and only after I probe multiple times. If that is the case, why did you even agree to it in the first place. Wtf.

They say wedding helps u see who are your real friends. It goes the same for family. What is wrong with these people?!

So gonna pull the same shit on you when you get married. What family? Bs. So angry.

7 Nov 2017

My MIL just attempted to brainwash me. So, R's Da Sao cooked some Chinese herbal thingy which was basically just throw whatever nonsense and boil water with it. She left it there for days already. So maybe my MIL thought it's very wasted so she asked if I wanted to finish it.

I just had dinner so I rejected her offer. Then she continued to talk about how she realise my SIL has been cooking such stuff for my BIL and that I should start learning these too because the women must look after the men

Ok, if I'm not working then fine. If I'm not planning the banquet and the whole world stop changing their rsvp then fine.

But why must the women be the one cooking? Why can't the men do it? It's not the first time she tried to hint to me.

She even tried to hint to my mom saying that I don't 夹菜 for them while the SIL does it. Erm, sorry, but what are your own hands for?

My family culture is you kiap your own food. Unless it's too far away from you, you jolly well use your own hands.

I think I've also hit quite low level of tolerance ever since the trip. The whole trip was basically waiting here waiting there as my sis put it. Fml.

Plus, my MIL tried bragging to my mom at every opportunity that she got about how good her two sons are and how her DILs, including me obviously, are extremely fortunate to have married her sons. And that we 赚到了. Cool cool cool cool cool cool cool cool cool cool cool cool

I don't deny that I 赚到了啦 but I also kind of exchanged it with now almost 9 years of my life, plus the most prime period of my life ok.

All my 青春 leh