Archiving Dayre Posts
6 Jan 2018
We just ended mj with our friends at like 1am then R insisted to go over to his colleagues place to play poker when I clearly said I didn't want to. He said it's only going to be 2h but it was already 1am so 1h or 2h, what difference does it make?
He drank so I drove over then when we reached, he asked if I wanted to go home. Wtf. So I very GL also and replied ya. He said he's gonna pay for it. I was expecting him to at least walk me to the taxi stand or wait for uber or whatever with me.
He drank so I drove over then when we reached, he asked if I wanted to go home. Wtf. So I very GL also and replied ya. He said he's gonna pay for it. I was expecting him to at least walk me to the taxi stand or wait for uber or whatever with me.
But noooooooooo
Who cares if your wife is going to get a cab by herself in the middle of the night? Who cares if she already drove you there? Just let her go find her way home herself.
Poker is life. Colleagues is life.
F life.
Who cares if your wife is going to get a cab by herself in the middle of the night? Who cares if she already drove you there? Just let her go find her way home herself.
Poker is life. Colleagues is life.
F life.
I should just set up a sole proprietorship called Valet Ryzer just to drive R around so I at least earn something out of it. I mean I already got treated like a valet driver. Didn't I?
Morning prac of the same pic but different colour. Not easy, my neck almost broke again.
Need to prac getting the same shade of colour more. I'm too impatient to test before putting on the paper so the colours are not consistent. Well, just got to prac more! 😊
Need to prac getting the same shade of colour more. I'm too impatient to test before putting on the paper so the colours are not consistent. Well, just got to prac more! 😊
Homeless (on my IC)
My mom finally got the house sorted out and cut him out of our lives forever. But this means that I am officially 'homeless' because HDB says that I cannot be named as an occupier of the house because I'm married and in sg, if you're married, you can only be named in the same home as your spouse.
R and I haven't got any place of our own because he wants to go study so no point getting a place. We are currently staying at his parent's which is really weird for me to ask to put my name in.
R and I haven't got any place of our own because he wants to go study so no point getting a place. We are currently staying at his parent's which is really weird for me to ask to put my name in.
R woke up really late today because of you know what 👆 so we only went out for our first meal at 1 plus 2pm.
We wanted to try korean at first but after looking at their menu, we decided not to and ended up at the 烧鱼 place beside it.
This 梅菜扣肉 is too salty. You probably need one bowl of rice to go with this.
#dayrefatties
We wanted to try korean at first but after looking at their menu, we decided not to and ended up at the 烧鱼 place beside it.
This 梅菜扣肉 is too salty. You probably need one bowl of rice to go with this.
#dayrefatties
I wanted an egg dish but didn't want the usual omelette that we order at zi char so we got the tomato egg. It's ok lo.
After finding out that there's free WiFi, he cannot stop using his phone....
The fish that we came for. Not as good as the one we had at Bugis but the Bugis one was too spicy for me so I stopped after taking 2 bites because I had to drink 2 cups of lime juice to 浇火.
After lunch, we grabbed some coffee before heading to the hospital to visit his popo.
So, another short episode of R being buay song at me happened while we were there. A little background on R and his family, their faith is Christianity, so am I now. They believe in praying for healing so they do it often.
After lunch, we grabbed some coffee before heading to the hospital to visit his popo.
So, another short episode of R being buay song at me happened while we were there. A little background on R and his family, their faith is Christianity, so am I now. They believe in praying for healing so they do it often.
Like their 4th uncle who is a very devout Christian will go around helping people by praying for them or do something similar to an exorcism (there's another word for it but I cannot remember now) minus all the neck twisting stuff u see in movies. He showed them videos of how demons tried to manifest in people that he prayed for. They will speak in languages that the original person don't know. Some will go on all fours and roar like a tiger etc.
I haven't seen such crazy manifestations yet.
I haven't seen such crazy manifestations yet.
I remember now, it's called deliverance. (edited)
But I've seen someone spoke in a way that is very unlike herself, puked black stuff after the prayers etc. So I do believe that it will work.
Back to why he was pissed at me momentarily. Idk if he's still pissed but whatever.
After everyone left the ward, only two of us stayed back, he told me that he felt that his prayers were working because when he prayed for his gma, she felt better immediately. To which, I told him straight that it's just the medicine working, the jab taking effect.
Back to why he was pissed at me momentarily. Idk if he's still pissed but whatever.
After everyone left the ward, only two of us stayed back, he told me that he felt that his prayers were working because when he prayed for his gma, she felt better immediately. To which, I told him straight that it's just the medicine working, the jab taking effect.
He agreed and said, "ya & that too."
Fine, you do your thing that you're comfortable with. I will just be here to give you moral support, right?
Next, he asked me to pray for his Gma, like how they do it. So Tbh, I haven't really prayed that much. In fact, I haven't even prayed out loud with other people around. It just doesn't come to me naturally. I find it really awkward and Idk what to say so I was really hesitant and said I didn't want to do it alone. I told him I'll pray tgt if he leads.
Fine, you do your thing that you're comfortable with. I will just be here to give you moral support, right?
Next, he asked me to pray for his Gma, like how they do it. So Tbh, I haven't really prayed that much. In fact, I haven't even prayed out loud with other people around. It just doesn't come to me naturally. I find it really awkward and Idk what to say so I was really hesitant and said I didn't want to do it alone. I told him I'll pray tgt if he leads.
He gave me a look of disgust and continued to reprimand me for not wanting to do it. And said stuff like how would I feel if it's my mom who's laying on the bed.
I mean I know you're sad but do you have to drag other people in? And my mother? I got too pissed at that moment and stopped talking to him. Sometimes I really feel like wth when he makes such comments. How can you expect me to feel that same way as you when I barely knew the person.
I mean I know you're sad but do you have to drag other people in? And my mother? I got too pissed at that moment and stopped talking to him. Sometimes I really feel like wth when he makes such comments. How can you expect me to feel that same way as you when I barely knew the person.
He did that to his mom once too saying how he thinks that she doesn't feel sad that his gma's health is poor and is in hospital. To which, she also rebutted and told him that he shouldn't have said that because same reasons as me, she will never feel the same way as him because their relationship is not close, they're not blood related etc.
How can you expect someone to share the same level of empathy when you're just not close at all?
At the end of the day, I just felt that it's very 过分 to
How can you expect someone to share the same level of empathy when you're just not close at all?
At the end of the day, I just felt that it's very 过分 to
drag my mom into this. But I already can't be bothered to argue with him after yesterday's episode. It's too tiring to always argue over such things.
It's already emotionally draining enough for him to go to hospital everyday and see his gma suffer.
So, dayre being my 出气桶 will be where I document my frustrations with life and its challenges. May I emerge from this period stronger and may I become more patient with all the bs that life is throwing at me.
It's already emotionally draining enough for him to go to hospital everyday and see his gma suffer.
So, dayre being my 出气桶 will be where I document my frustrations with life and its challenges. May I emerge from this period stronger and may I become more patient with all the bs that life is throwing at me.
7 Jan 2018
It's just one accommodation that wasn't chosen properly then he got angry and started questioning how I did the selection for the whole trip when he haven't even looked at the rest of the trip!!!
Tbh I wasn't even that free during the week. I've had my whole week planned out long ago before he confirmed that we were going to Italy. Then how? Expect me to drop everything and plan for the trip?
讲好 today (Saturday) we will plan tgt but you chose to sleep away the whole day then still expect me
Tbh I wasn't even that free during the week. I've had my whole week planned out long ago before he confirmed that we were going to Italy. Then how? Expect me to drop everything and plan for the trip?
讲好 today (Saturday) we will plan tgt but you chose to sleep away the whole day then still expect me
to plan? Why? Am I going on the trip alone?
I fucking buay ta han everyone just assumes that I am very free just because I'm not working. So what if I'm not working? That doesn't mean I can run your errands for you! Don't ask me to buy fucking toto for you when I'm not even the one who wanted to buy. That's not R, that's my mom. Just infuriating!!!
I took this break so that I can rest and to relax, not to 跑腿. I mean if I have to run errands for you then I'd rather work.
I took this break so that I can rest and to relax, not to 跑腿. I mean if I have to run errands for you then I'd rather work.
Ray is just like this stupid dinosaur. Every little thing also get angry. Wth. If your 30 year old body can't take an overnight poker and you have to waste your whole Saturday away, why did you even go in the first place?
Fuck BAINNNNNNNNNN!!!!!!!!
I am so freaking angry now that I just told R idw to go italy anymore. If he can't wait for me to have time to plan then forget it.
He fucking pointed his finger at me and said I want you to cancel whatever you have tmr morning.
Fuck BAINNNNNNNNNN!!!!!!!!
I am so freaking angry now that I just told R idw to go italy anymore. If he can't wait for me to have time to plan then forget it.
He fucking pointed his finger at me and said I want you to cancel whatever you have tmr morning.
I'm going for a lettering foiling class with nehohmee and it's a class I've been wanting to go for a year. Now that I finally have the time to go, you ask me to cancel?! Wtf 想得美. I am not going to compromise at all!!!!!!!!!
I am so so so angry now because he is being such an idiot. I cannot believe he still can watch show in bed now! Fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck!!!!!!!!!!!
I've told him repeatedly that that itinerary is a rough one, only accommodation need him to see if he's OK then he assumed
I am so so so angry now because he is being such an idiot. I cannot believe he still can watch show in bed now! Fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck!!!!!!!!!!!
I've told him repeatedly that that itinerary is a rough one, only accommodation need him to see if he's OK then he assumed
all the activities are confirmed. Wtf!!! 是老人痴呆还是耳朵聋了???
You're the one who said you wanted to go all these places, so I planned it such that we have equal number of days in each place, like that also buay Song. 酱厉害 you plan la!
You're the one who said you wanted to go all these places, so I planned it such that we have equal number of days in each place, like that also buay Song. 酱厉害 you plan la!
Then after that he said that he wants me to do it in an excel with all the details of each place and where to go, what to eat, where is nice?
Am I a travel agency? I know nothing about freaking Italy so I still have to figure where the fuck you want to go and what the fuck we can do. Oh and before that, still have to figure out where to stay.
My fucking mac book air hangs when I use excel. You dragged me to hospital until late everyday then still expect me to plan? Wts.
Am I a travel agency? I know nothing about freaking Italy so I still have to figure where the fuck you want to go and what the fuck we can do. Oh and before that, still have to figure out where to stay.
My fucking mac book air hangs when I use excel. You dragged me to hospital until late everyday then still expect me to plan? Wts.
I hate to use track pad on laptop and I had to do the planning on a laptop on my lap in the hospital just now. You didn't even bother asking or offered to help once.
You can spend time playing poker, smoking and drinking, cannot use a little bit of your stupid time to plan? Only want to 坐享其成.
AAAAHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!
You can spend time playing poker, smoking and drinking, cannot use a little bit of your stupid time to plan? Only want to 坐享其成.
AAAAHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!
I hate it when people point their finger at me. It will be so childish for me to say this but point people, point yourself!
9 Jan 2018
"Eh you excited or not?"
This is what Ray is asking me everyday since we confirmed our trip to Italy. We are flying this Friday and will be there will the 20th. After that I'm flying to France to find @chasingwaterfalls!!!!!
So excited!!! I haven't been to Europe before and everyone is telling me to be careful. Well, my conclusion is to behave like when I go Msia. Paiseh, no offence to Msians ahh..
Just done with shopping for the trip, bought clothes and shoes in town.
This is what Ray is asking me everyday since we confirmed our trip to Italy. We are flying this Friday and will be there will the 20th. After that I'm flying to France to find @chasingwaterfalls!!!!!
So excited!!! I haven't been to Europe before and everyone is telling me to be careful. Well, my conclusion is to behave like when I go Msia. Paiseh, no offence to Msians ahh..
Just done with shopping for the trip, bought clothes and shoes in town.
Going to meet with the restaurants Director of Sales later. We will see how the negotiation goes and it she's going to be like the other managing director.
These people's service recovery really cmi. How to be in the service sector like this? Haiz. 😧
These people's service recovery really cmi. How to be in the service sector like this? Haiz. 😧
So happy with all my buys and R sponsored me a pair of shoes from Aldo. Initially, he said he will subsidise but when paying he said he will just pay all. Woo!
After that, he jokingly said that 有老婆真贵啊...
Hahahaha!!!
#beachlifeisgoodlife
After that, he jokingly said that 有老婆真贵啊...
Hahahaha!!!
#beachlifeisgoodlife
11 Jan 2018
Omggg!!! I cannot wait to fly off to Italy!!!
We almost didn't make it to this trip because R and I quarreled. Haha very bo liao to cancel trip because we quarreled but both of us are hot headed like that.
Marriage really taught me to pick my battles. You can't win every single battle but you must make sure you win the war. Lol 😂
Not even married for 1 month and I'm dishing out advice. Whatever, we've been tgt for more than 8 years by now so I do know a little on how to manage rship.
We almost didn't make it to this trip because R and I quarreled. Haha very bo liao to cancel trip because we quarreled but both of us are hot headed like that.
Marriage really taught me to pick my battles. You can't win every single battle but you must make sure you win the war. Lol 😂
Not even married for 1 month and I'm dishing out advice. Whatever, we've been tgt for more than 8 years by now so I do know a little on how to manage rship.
But I really can't wait to eat pizza, pasta, drink wine and coffee everyday with R in Italy. We rarely quarrel when on holiday. I guess being on holiday just gets you on a really good mood but planning for one is different. Haha
How I wish there's an app that can help you do all the planning and booking without you fussing over it. But then again it's not easy because everyone's preference is different.
How I wish there's an app that can help you do all the planning and booking without you fussing over it. But then again it's not easy because everyone's preference is different.
But a super sian thing now is I'm down with a cold. Runny nose, cough, headaches... Urrghh. I'm really scared that the full blown fever and shit will hit me when we reach Italy because it's cold there and I'm not one who takes the cold well.
I'm so going to miss this little puff ball. It has been menstruating again so its mood has been all over the place. I wonder if dogs will have menstrual cramp like us.
