Archiving Dayre Posts
21 Jul 2017
Just completed insanity max 30 day 5. Skipped day 3 and 4 because my body was aching like crazy and I'm gg to replace it with bball on Saturday and spinning on Sunday.
Gown fitting made me want to work hard but insanity is insane. My God. Going to go back to swimming 🏊 to replace some days next week. Insanity might break my legs. Haha 😂
Gown fitting made me want to work hard but insanity is insane. My God. Going to go back to swimming 🏊 to replace some days next week. Insanity might break my legs. Haha 😂
I cannot lift up my hand!
22 Jul 2017
Attempting to customise my bridesmaid gifts and it's proving to be quite difficult. I can't seem to get it the way I imagined it to be.
I blame Insanity for it because my arms just feel damn weak because of the pain.
I blame Insanity for it because my arms just feel damn weak because of the pain.
Only managed to do these two up which R says he can't read some of the words so all rejected.
Need to make better ones. Maybe I should buy some tracing paper and probably the whitelines book thing that kept popping up on my insta.
#dayrebrides #handlettering #calligraphy #typography
Need to make better ones. Maybe I should buy some tracing paper and probably the whitelines book thing that kept popping up on my insta.
#dayrebrides #handlettering #calligraphy #typography
Ohh, I also just spent 400sgd on taobao to buy a few gowns and dresses for the wedding. Since they're only about 50 - 100 each, I just bought a few to see which fits. Lol.
We went gown fitting last two weekends and were so shocked 😲 by the pricing. I just cant bear to part with 1k just to rent a gown. It's ridiculous.
#myheartisrayxin #ryzerweds
We went gown fitting last two weekends and were so shocked 😲 by the pricing. I just cant bear to part with 1k just to rent a gown. It's ridiculous.
#myheartisrayxin #ryzerweds
I look like a crazy woman with my dishevelled hair but I can't be bothered to tie it up because I can't lift my arms up above my shoulder.
Yishun kampong kias, R and I, just ended our virgin bball games at OCBC Arena. Omg. So nice.
We got to leave Yishun more often haha. It was fun to play ball games again. Haven't played any proper ball game since uni year 1.
Not that I played a lot today since I'm the only woman, I mainly just ran up and down the court.
We got to leave Yishun more often haha. It was fun to play ball games again. Haven't played any proper ball game since uni year 1.
Not that I played a lot today since I'm the only woman, I mainly just ran up and down the court.
25 Jul 2017
Walking home from the centre now because I'm too cheap to pay $3 for uber pool and it doesn't make sense to take a bus when I still have to walk one bus stop's distance to get back.
I also forgot to bring my electric scooter out today when Ray only told me he can't send me home tonight after I got to the centre. I know I shouldn't expect him to send me back every night but just don't like to be informed last min of his activities.
I also forgot to bring my electric scooter out today when Ray only told me he can't send me home tonight after I got to the centre. I know I shouldn't expect him to send me back every night but just don't like to be informed last min of his activities.
I've moved into his place permanently since the start of this year, like all my things are at his place now. Only random things like my uni textbooks are still at my mom's.
I have to say that it was truly okay at the start but I'm increasingly feeling the chinese quote of 相见容易相处难. Don't get me wrong, everyone has been nice but it is still not my own place to begin with.
I grew up in a house of females so I didn't have the habit of wearing bra at home but now I have to. It's not the most
I have to say that it was truly okay at the start but I'm increasingly feeling the chinese quote of 相见容易相处难. Don't get me wrong, everyone has been nice but it is still not my own place to begin with.
I grew up in a house of females so I didn't have the habit of wearing bra at home but now I have to. It's not the most
comfy thing to wear. So, I've started buying bra with no underwire but proper bras are not cheap, I can't just replace all my bra.
Then, there's the problem of shared toilet. The room that we are staying in does not have an ensuite toilet so we have to use the one in the kitchen that everyone else uses, and everyone else shits in.
The washing machine is also in the kitchen so naturally all the soaked clothes are also in this toilet which make it stink damn bad when it's soaked for too long.
Then, there's the problem of shared toilet. The room that we are staying in does not have an ensuite toilet so we have to use the one in the kitchen that everyone else uses, and everyone else shits in.
The washing machine is also in the kitchen so naturally all the soaked clothes are also in this toilet which make it stink damn bad when it's soaked for too long.
Then, comes the new dog which I love but is still learning where to poop and wee wee so now it's shitting and urinating anywhere in the kitchen. This means that we have to clean it and wiping wee wee away with toilet paper is definitely not enough so you have to mop it.
After you mop it, you have to rinse the mop outside of the pail so you don't just use the pee to mop the floor again. But the pail of water still stinks like hell. So, the toilet is just smelly until bth. I don't even step in
After you mop it, you have to rinse the mop outside of the pail so you don't just use the pee to mop the floor again. But the pail of water still stinks like hell. So, the toilet is just smelly until bth. I don't even step in
barefooted anymore. I shower with slippers on. Maybe I'm overreacting but I just find it disgusting. Furthermore, you can't be washing the toilet everyday, right?
And then, there's the fridge. Sometimes I will buy some vege to cook, sometimes I may forget that I bought some stuff and thought that particular thing was bought by someone else so I don't dare to cook it. I mean so many people stay in this house, everyone will buy some stuff. To make the long story short, my vege started to rot and
And then, there's the fridge. Sometimes I will buy some vege to cook, sometimes I may forget that I bought some stuff and thought that particular thing was bought by someone else so I don't dare to cook it. I mean so many people stay in this house, everyone will buy some stuff. To make the long story short, my vege started to rot and
made the fridge smelly. 😧 then, this made me think twice when I went grocery shopping. Like I felt paiseh to put the stuff in the fridge so I got R to do it but he wanted to do smth else first so I was unhappy. Ya, i know, very bo liao to be unhappy with such things.
But I just felt like he doesn't understand my situation. I just feel damn sian and sometimes I just feel like moving back to my mom's place but my things are all here and it's so troublesome! Really fml.
But I just felt like he doesn't understand my situation. I just feel damn sian and sometimes I just feel like moving back to my mom's place but my things are all here and it's so troublesome! Really fml.
I thought I can handle this whole staying under the same roof thing and I think his mom thinks I'm taking it really well because she was chatting with me about how R's SIL seems like she's not adapting well like she will still go back to her parent's place even when R's brother is in sg.
Well, I guess I'm just really good at hiding my emotions from the others. Poor R just got to take the brunt when I complain to him. Fhl
There are also certain things that I 看不顺眼 but I just stfu because I
Well, I guess I'm just really good at hiding my emotions from the others. Poor R just got to take the brunt when I complain to him. Fhl
There are also certain things that I 看不顺眼 but I just stfu because I
don't want to quarrel with anyone and I'm the youngest in this household too. Like if my sister were to do certain things in a certain way, I would definitely voice out my opinion if I think she's wrong but I would just act blur, live longer when I see the wrong things happen here. If that makes sense... 😂
I still feel the anxiety on a daily basis. It may not be all the time but when it hits me, I still feel very helpless. I can sleep better now because I force myself to exercise so my body will be too tired. I also force myself to wake up when R goes to work so I don't sleep too long.
This whole shit situation is just getting on my nerves and I just need to rant it out somewhere otherwise I will go crazy.
This whole shit situation is just getting on my nerves and I just need to rant it out somewhere otherwise I will go crazy.
I seriously seriously hate unreasonable parents! Who gave you the rights to be rude to other people just because your kids gave you problems? Cannot handle your kids then vent your frustrations on others. Who do you think you are??!!
So what happened was this boy told me that he wants to start going to church on Saturdays and asked if he can change class. I told him it wasn't possible because his is a NA class and there is only one per week. It is very difficult for me to fill up NA classes so I wasn't willing to open a single class for him from a business stand point. And tbh, there isn't any suitable time slot as well.
It was in the afternoon when he asked me so I told him to talk to his mom so see what she thinks.
It was in the afternoon when he asked me so I told him to talk to his mom so see what she thinks.
At the end of the day, he's still a minor so his mom gets the final day. I had class until 930pm and by the time I reached home was already 1015pm. So I texted him to ask him what the conclusion was and he merely replied, 'idk'. Then I asked if he talked to his mom, he said yes to which I asked what she told him. Again, 'idk'.
Seriously, teenagers...... 😡
So, I called the mom. She is in service industry so the only time I can catch her is also after 10pm when the shops close. She did not
Seriously, teenagers...... 😡
So, I called the mom. She is in service industry so the only time I can catch her is also after 10pm when the shops close. She did not
Pick up. So I texted to ask her about it. She was so so so rude. She is, right? Or am I overreacting?
It's not even a problem that is started by me. I'm just trying to get some clarifications. Why can't she just say it nicely?
Paying money doesn't make you the Queen.
Even when texting she's like this, can you imagine how rude she is when she's on the phone? Calling her always makes me feel super nervous like I did something wrong and am about to get scolded because she just shouts at
It's not even a problem that is started by me. I'm just trying to get some clarifications. Why can't she just say it nicely?
Paying money doesn't make you the Queen.
Even when texting she's like this, can you imagine how rude she is when she's on the phone? Calling her always makes me feel super nervous like I did something wrong and am about to get scolded because she just shouts at
everything. What is wrong with these people? Can't you communicate like civilised people?
It hurts others terribly when you randomly vent your anger at irrelevant people just because your own day didn't go well.
Service people like us are human beings too. We have feelings. I kept telling myself to tolerate her for the students but I really cannot anymore.
It hurts others terribly when you randomly vent your anger at irrelevant people just because your own day didn't go well.
Service people like us are human beings too. We have feelings. I kept telling myself to tolerate her for the students but I really cannot anymore.
I also just recently told her elder son off because he kept using profanities in class. And, you know what, she herself told me that they speak like this at home so she understands why he speaks like this.
I mean, just because you speak a certain way at home doesn't mean you can talk to others in the same crude manner.
I mean, just because you speak a certain way at home doesn't mean you can talk to others in the same crude manner.
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